If your family member is in jail or prison and you want to text them, you’ve probably typed “inmatedb.com/">texting an inmate texting service” into Google and felt your stomach drop at the results. A dozen companies with similar names, confusing websites, and prices that seem to change by the day. Here’s the short version: yes, you can text an inmate from your phone, but it doesn’t work like regular texting. You need a service that the facility allows, and the inmate sends and receives messages through a tablet or kiosk. The whole thing costs money — usually a monthly fee for you, and sometimes per-message charges for them. The good news is that it’s faster than mail and more reliable than phone calls. The real question is which service actually works for your situation.
How does texting an inmate actually work?
You send a message from your phone using a specific app or website. That message gets routed through the service’s servers, then delivered to the inmate’s facility, where it shows up on a tablet or kiosk. The inmate can read it and type a reply, which comes back to you as a text or an in-app notification. It’s not real-time like iMessage or WhatsApp. There’s usually a delay of a few seconds to a few minutes, sometimes longer during peak hours or if the facility processes messages in batches.
The inmate does not have a cell phone. They have a device issued by the facility, and it can only send and receive messages through the approved service. That means you cannot just text their old number and expect it to reach them.
What do you actually see on your phone?
Most services have an app you download, or you use a mobile website. You type a message, hit send, and then wait. On your end, it looks like a chat thread, but with a delay. Some services show a delivered checkmark when the message reaches the facility, and a separate read receipt when the inmate opens it. Others just show “sent” and you hope for the best.
The first time you do it, you’ll probably stare at the screen for five minutes waiting for a reply. That’s normal. The inmate might be in their cell, at work, or in a program. They’ll reply when they can.
Why do replies feel slow even when they’re not?
Facilities control when inmates can use the tablets. Some allow access all day, others restrict it to certain hours. Even when the inmate has the tablet, they may have a limited number of messages they can send per day, or a character limit. If they’re in a dormitory with one tablet for twenty people, they might get five minutes every few hours.
Also, the inmate has to type on a touchscreen with no autocorrect, often with a stylus or their finger. A short reply that takes you thirty seconds might take them five minutes. Be patient. If you’re used to instant replies, this will feel slow. That’s not the service’s fault — it’s the reality of the facility.
How much does it cost, and is it worth it?
Most services charge a monthly subscription for you, plus a per-message fee for the inmate. The monthly fee ranges from roughly $10 to $40, depending on the service and whether you want photos or longer messages. The inmate usually pays a few cents per message, which comes out of their commissary account. Some facilities cover the cost for indigent inmates, but don’t count on it.
Is it worth it? Compared to phone calls, which can cost $5–$15 for a 15-minute call, texting is cheap. You can send dozens of messages for the same price. And unlike letters, you get a reply the same day — sometimes within minutes. For most families, the monthly fee is a fraction of what they were spending on phone calls.
What usually goes wrong the first time?
The most common problem: you sign up for a service, pay the fee, and then discover the facility doesn’t allow that specific service. Every facility has a list of approved vendors. Check the facility’s website or call the visitor center before you pay anything. The second most common problem: you send a message and never get a reply because the inmate didn’t receive it. This can happen if the inmate hasn’t been issued a tablet yet, if they’re in a restricted housing unit, or if the facility is having technical issues. If you don’t hear back in 24–48 hours, call the facility and ask if messages are being delivered.
Another thing that trips people up: you can only text inmates who are in facilities that contract with the service. You cannot text an inmate in a different state if that facility uses a different provider. And if the inmate gets transferred, your service might stop working until you switch to whatever that new facility uses.
Is there a service that works across facilities?
Not exactly. Most services are tied to specific facilities or correctional systems. But there is one that tries to cover more ground: InmateDB. It lets you send messages, photos, and letters online, and the inmate can text phone numbers in the U.S. and Canada. It also gives them access to AI chat, email, news, lessons, trivia, and a private journal — all through one platform. The price is $19.99 per month with a 5-day free trial for every new inmate. That’s on the lower end of what most services charge, and the free trial means you can test whether your facility actually supports it before committing. You can find it at InmateDB.
What if the inmate doesn’t reply at all?
That’s hard, and it happens. Sometimes the inmate doesn’t have tablet access, sometimes they’re in the hole, sometimes they just don’t want to text. If you’ve confirmed the facility allows the service and the inmate has a tablet, wait a week. Send one follow-up message saying you’re thinking of them, then give them space. Don’t flood them with messages — that can actually get their tablet privileges revoked if they exceed a daily limit you can’t see on your end.
Where to start
First, check the facility’s approved vendor list. Second, pick a service that’s on that list and offers a free trial. Third, sign up, send one message, and wait. Don’t expect instant conversation. Do expect a connection that’s faster than mail and more affordable than phone calls. Texting an inmate is not like texting a free person, but it’s the closest thing you’ve got. And for most families, that’s enough.